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| Tweet Topic Started: Jan 11 2005, 08:08 PM (1,325 Views) | |
| joe-hpt | Jan 11 2005, 08:08 PM Post #1 |
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Non Omnis Moriar.
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I have asked but nobody seems to know the answer. Ok here it is. Why is it ok for a girl to say another girl is hot and not ok for a guy to say another guy is hot? I asked that at school today and nobody seemed to know the answer. What do you guys think? |
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| Logik | Jan 11 2005, 08:09 PM Post #2 |
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it's not sparkly enough
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Um, a guy saying another guy is hot sound wierder than a girl saying another girl is hot. Ether way its wierd.
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| joe-hpt | Jan 11 2005, 08:16 PM Post #3 |
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Non Omnis Moriar.
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So a girl saying another girl is hot is wierd too you know. |
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| Spurius | Jan 11 2005, 08:34 PM Post #4 |
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I've always thought a girl saying another girl is hot... is hot. One word, society. Somehow it's turned out this way. I honesty have no complaints. People, mainly guys, tend to look for excuses to call other guys 'gay' so they will feel, and (think they) look more manly. One way of doing this is by waiting for someone to say something that 'society' considers to be 'gay'. So of course, guys are going to aviod saying stuff that is considered to be 'gay'. So in effect, no guys talk about other guys looks in an attempt to not give any other guy the right to say he is, infact, 'gay'. Ummm... I doubt you'll understand that, as I don't think I really do, just don't worry about it. |
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| Abrecan | Jan 11 2005, 08:42 PM Post #5 |
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I don't think I've EVER heard a girl calling another girl "hot". |
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| .Sirus | Jan 11 2005, 08:48 PM Post #6 |
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Harlequin
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Same, but calling a guy hot.. :X |
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| Ereshkigal | Jan 11 2005, 09:20 PM Post #7 |
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It's just a cultural thing. I know guys who will say other guys are good looking (only a few would actually say 'hot) even though they're straight. No doubt it largely depends on who you hang out with and what kind of 'culture' you all belong too. My friend (female) and I have talked about girls we think are hot...it has nothing to do with being attracted to them - it just means they are good looking and I guess many men in our society don't make that separation so if their friend says some guy is hot they automatically want to say they're gay. My boyfriend and I have talked about men and women we think are good looking and I definitely don't think he's into men that way
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| Matt L. | Jan 11 2005, 09:21 PM Post #8 |
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In my opinion, hot is what you call a girl, but whatever. |
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| Ereshkigal | Jan 11 2005, 09:28 PM Post #9 |
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You don't think girls call guys hot? Or you just mean for a man to call another guy hot would be weird...but it might be ok to say he's good looking, hansome, something like that? |
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| Rory | Jan 11 2005, 09:34 PM Post #10 |
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i;m a mess
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I agree with Spurius.... Society. We have grown up and become desensitized to how things should be. |
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| SkItZo | Jan 11 2005, 09:45 PM Post #11 |
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Guys i feel are less open about such comments than the ladies. If you notice, girls can easily hug another girl without much problem, but when it comes to guys making contact....errm...yeah not exactly a great picture. |
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| Das | Jan 11 2005, 09:47 PM Post #12 |
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Smells of rich mahogany
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It is just wrong to call another guy hott in my school ... unless ur gay |
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| Rory | Jan 11 2005, 10:05 PM Post #13 |
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i;m a mess
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haha, you haven;t seen me with my friends. we are always huggin because we are great friends. |
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| Das | Jan 11 2005, 10:08 PM Post #14 |
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Smells of rich mahogany
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I refer back to my quote
I am not dissing you just noting how different areas can be. Where do you live? |
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| Rory | Jan 11 2005, 10:14 PM Post #15 |
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i;m a mess
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i wouldn't say someone was "hot". but i would make an observation that someone was potentially more 'attractive' than other blokes. thats just the way i've grown up, with some people being more natually attractive than others, hence being more popular with girls. |
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