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Advice- Girl Help
Topic Started: Jul 18 2007, 08:31 AM (2,037 Views)
Dropkicksidekick
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How are you suppose to get your girlfriend to have a serious conversation with you. About what's going on in the relationship, how she feels, and how to confront her if you know she's cheating, or did cheat?
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If you guys are really close it should be quite easy to start, but even if it isn't easy just try sitting down with her somewhere and asking her without attitude, attitude just starts fights. Be calm and gentle.
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thank you, and how to make it last and make her feel special where she wouldn't have to? :\
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Yes. Make her feel like she's the only one for you (If you still love her), and that you really care, and that you want your relationship to be healthy.
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Dump her ass. Don't be subtle, just dump her ass. Seriously.
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But this was actually for my friend. Which is talking to me on a sidekick.
I also have sorta the same problem with my girlfriend too. About the conversation part. She's two years younger then me, and I know it's harder for her to say things. I just want her to be completely open and honest about how she really feels.
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A blast from the past.

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July 18, 2007 09:53 AM
Dump her ass. Don't be subtle, just dump her ass. Seriously.

*sighs* Some people believe in second chances no matter what you do. Some times it works some times it does not. If one does give a second chance and it does work out, hey more power to you, that you and your girlfriend/boyfriend was able to work a major problem out and make it work out in the long run,
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Aaron
July 18, 2007 10:10 AM
LABaller
July 18, 2007 09:53 AM
Dump her ass.  Don't be subtle, just dump her ass.  Seriously.

*sighs* Some people believe in second chances no matter what you do. Some times it works some times it does not. If one does give a second chance and it does work out, hey more power to you, that you and your girlfriend/boyfriend was able to work a major problem out and make it work out in the long run,

But is it really worth it when you can go try and find someone else that wouldn't try breaking your trust at all?
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LABaller
July 18, 2007 07:49 AM
Aaron
July 18, 2007 10:10 AM
LABaller
July 18, 2007 09:53 AM
Dump her ass.  Don't be subtle, just dump her ass.  Seriously.

*sighs* Some people believe in second chances no matter what you do. Some times it works some times it does not. If one does give a second chance and it does work out, hey more power to you, that you and your girlfriend/boyfriend was able to work a major problem out and make it work out in the long run,

But is it really worth it when you can go try and find someone else that wouldn't try breaking your trust at all?

If you can dump someone that easily, how are you ever going to build a true connection?
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cvn-tv-dip
July 18, 2007 01:04 PM
If you can dump someone that easily, how are you ever going to build a true connection?

Who cares about a "true connection?" What you really need to do is
Number one: Not have a girlfriend
Number two: You should have plenty of chicks in rotation. I don't know how old you are, but if your over 18...
And number three: Who cares if she's cheating? Most likely she'll do it in the future, and you'll never have a stable relationship I promise. You need to cheat too. Who cares? Unless your at least 28 shouldn't you have a girlfriend.

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Milex
July 18, 2007 08:15 AM
Yes. Make her feel like she's the only one for you (If you still love her), and that you really care, and that you want your relationship to be healthy.


Making her feel like the only one is the absolute last thing you want to do. Get her self-esteem down and she'll be slobbering all over you. (No not literally)
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Who cares about a "true connection?"

People that get married?

Too many people nowadays treat relationships like a joke, a mere hobby at best. They forget that a serious relationship can go much further than what people normally seem to do.
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July 18, 2007 01:10 PM
cvn-tv-dip
July 18, 2007 01:04 PM
If you can dump someone that easily, how are you ever going to build a true connection?

Who cares about a "true connection?" What you really need to do is
Number one: Not have a girlfriend
Number two: You should have plenty of chicks in rotation. I don't know how old you are, but if your over 18...
And number three: Who cares if she's cheating? Most likely she'll do it in the future, and you'll never have a stable relationship I promise. You need to cheat too. Who cares? Unless your at least 28 should you have a girlfriend.

Putting the Leykis 101 perspective on dating,
Sithis's Embrace

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Milex
July 18, 2007 08:15 AM
Yes. Make her feel like she's the only one for you (If you still love her), and that you really care, and that you want your relationship to be healthy.


Making her feel like the only one is the absolute last thing you want to do. Get her self-esteem down and she'll be slobbering all over you. (No not literally)

Dude... No girls ever going to like you. :r
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Dropkicksidekick
July 18, 2007 01:36 PM
Dude... No girls ever going to like you. :r

Very untrue. Ask any divorced woman and ask her why she divorced her husband. She'll most likely say he was a jerk. Well, he didn't one day decide during the marrage to become one, did he? No, she married him because he was a jerk. She liked jerks when she was young and hot.

Putting the Leykis 101 perspective on dating,
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To be honest, I'll add to DKSK's comment. That's not how you treat people.

Your Leykis 101 perspective is not how true relationships are formed. These relationships are a more specific type of human relations that need to be bonded properly.
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It's best to chose your own paths :\
Not listen to an expert. Someone that says they're an exert at dating, love, whatever, has never really loved.
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