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| LABaller | Jul 18 2007, 03:23 PM Post #31 |
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His current post is near what he said:
He asked how to confront her if you know for sure that she's cheating. I simply said dump her, my reasoning is explained in the post before my last one. He later explained himself and said that he does not yet know. So my advice doesn't apply for that situation. So before everyone jumps down my throat, please pay attention to the timing of my post. ![]() |
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| Sithis's Embrace | Jul 18 2007, 03:23 PM Post #32 |
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Didn't I say that "Personally I don't want my heart and my wallet annihilated when I find out my wife is cheating."? That will happen. All I really want to say is: Go, enjoy being 19 while you can. Have fun, and don't miss out on going with the boys somewhere because your girlfriend wont let you! Does that make any sense? |
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| LABaller | Jul 18 2007, 03:26 PM Post #33 |
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I agree with that reasoning. While you're young, meet as many women as you'd like. You don't need to tie yourself down so quickly at 19 yrs. old. The more women you meet, the closer you'll be to finding someone that you might enjoy settling down with. But when you make a commitment (and that can be much earlier than engagement), and your faith waivers, it's not worth continuing in my opinion. And that includes at your age. If your significant other is just going around and screwing everyone else, and you don't like that, just leave. You don't have to tolerate that if you don't want to. |
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| Dropkicksidekick | Jul 18 2007, 03:28 PM Post #34 |
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How are you ever going to catch a fish if you never fish? O_O and to note. I just turned 18 BUT, this is the one I want to stay with forever nothing much to say. |
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| cvn-tv-dip | Jul 18 2007, 03:29 PM Post #35 |
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Then you should be stronger and more firm the next time you talk to her. Tell her this part...
the whole thing; I just italicized last sentence because it stands out more. And then tell her that you two need to straighten things out. Since it doesn't seem like you're sure, mention the cheating part only if the timing's right. And explain that you want this relationship to be more definite, either to stand or to part, not vague as it seems now.
Well I was looking at your post as a perspective of if he knew his girlfriend was cheating. So I said in response that you shouldn't be so aggressive about it, but you should make your point clear.
While that has its merits, what will you do once you get older? Will you actually commit? Also, I've seen successful couples at younger age, and how that benefits their children because of closer connection between them and their parents, so don't be so pessimistic. People that take relationships seriously don't really take risks like that until they find that they're ready/well-matched/trusting to bond in a commitment. |
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| LABaller | Jul 18 2007, 03:31 PM Post #36 |
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Sorry if you took it as aggressive. I don't see it that way. I was as clear as I possibly could have been, because that is the overall message of my posts. |
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| Sithis's Embrace | Jul 18 2007, 03:32 PM Post #37 |
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To further explain, 19 is WAY to young to have a girlfriend. 26 is the outskirts of how old you should be before getting into a relationship. 28 is ideal. Generally women are dreamkillers. They hold you back to pay attention to them instead of doing what is required to acheive your dream. When you were six, didn't you want to be a Firefighter or something like that? That probably won't happen if you have a girlfriend. EDIT: You're 18? Even worse! Don't you want to have fun with the boys now and then? |
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| Dropkicksidekick | Jul 18 2007, 03:33 PM Post #38 |
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Actually, from the first page I mentioned about the cheating part. My friend is on a sidekick, and asked me for advice. I had none so I posted it here to help out, but I'm also going through relationship problems, trying to talk to my girlfriend, and so I added a question in their for me in my original post. |
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| cvn-tv-dip | Jul 18 2007, 03:36 PM Post #39 |
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I'd rather be abstinent and not go in any wild directions until that ideal age arrives. Oh and LABaller I meant you as someone in DKSK's situation and not you that posted your point, to clarify. |
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| Sithis's Embrace | Jul 18 2007, 03:38 PM Post #40 |
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Where did abstinence come from? |
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| cvn-tv-dip | Jul 18 2007, 03:41 PM Post #41 |
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Tom Leykis.
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| Dropkicksidekick | Jul 18 2007, 03:50 PM Post #42 |
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I guess, In conclusion, I've analyzed most of the data given and almost everything mentioned has already been tried. So I guess, if she hasn't opened up to me by now, either, there's nothing wrong, or she's not going to tell me. Maybe it's me that's really not ready, but yet, this is the person I want to stay with because in all reality, I love her. I'd do anything for her, I'd always be there for her no matter what, and I want it to last. I guess the best I can do is always be there for her, and have faith and trust in her. Very good discussion everyone, and thanks for talking to me. |
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| Sithis's Embrace | Jul 18 2007, 03:55 PM Post #43 |
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Hey read this article. I think I've made my point. |
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| Dropkicksidekick | Jul 18 2007, 04:01 PM Post #44 |
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If you look and examine the topic title though, it was mainly for girls point of view. Because girls are hard to understand and coming from a bunch of guys that probably don't understand the way they think we'll probably never know. So I wanted to see what some girls though about the situation. One man doesn't speak for us all. |
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| cvn-tv-dip | Jul 18 2007, 04:36 PM Post #45 |
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That's one example. Don't forget the population that does have successful marriages. |
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