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Vince's little problem.; em it's just rant so please be nice.
Topic Started: Feb 1 2006, 12:06 PM (695 Views)
Remzo
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As long as he is near your age I see no problem, though it is a bit risky with you being the girl and all.
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Drew
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Feb 2 2006, 01:15 AM
Go to a restruant like some other people said and get to know him.

^__^

I agree. Wait a little. :sigh:
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Dave
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He likes you, I'm sure. If he goes up to talk to you and wahtnot out of the blue like that and asks you if you want to go to his place. He could always be a somewhat stereotype male, however, and just want - you know. I would try to get him on a date if you are interested in him, try to get a feel for his personality. At that point, you should be able to tell if he is only in it for reasons you probably wouldn't appreciate, or if he is genuinely interested in a relationship with you.
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Maiz
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I say find a public place to meet him in. Don't go to his place cuz that could be weird. Meet him somewhere like a mall or something where you feel safe but can still have fun ^_^
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Feb 2 2006, 07:36 AM
Im going to kill the next person that thinks vince is a guy. Its so freaking clear that he isnt.

Hm, Id get to know him abit better first- as pandeo said dont get to know someone through MSN and think thats fine, it isnt. Itd depend-does he seem like a nice guy that just wants to get to know you?

Vince isnt a male O_o

I know she isnt.
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Vince.Valentine
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LOL. YES I AM NO MALE! males suck :ermm: :haha:

anyway ok then there's another twist to the situation.

When he DID ask me to go to his place he said he would be in the state at the time (Xmas) but he originally comes from ... north of the country which is an insane 3 - 4 hour drive just to go see someone that i've known for a few days?

I've also got into contact with his friends. Or well people who know him anyway. They say that he's the quiet sort of person. And that is true, he didn't seem like some showoff wannabe nigga (sorry thats what we call them here i try not to use it if i can. slapmenow) like the rest of the losers and was genuinely NICE.

And my friend told me to go to his place and she'd come along. And I was to ask my dad to take me. Sure how would that look : "Hey Dad ... I have to go to a friends house. AND he's a guy whom i've only spoken to a few times ... yeah so?"

So i told her she's nuts and i would never go to a strangers house.

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IN ANY CASE, a month went by and i had no way of contacting him. Yeah dumb of me, meet a guy you might like and not get his contact. Anyhoo, i didn't really care so much and then on New years eve he texted me and wished me happy NY. And he also said he'd like to contact me.

So he called up my cell once from north of the country which is super expensive for that distance to ask me to go over to his place cause there was a function going on and it was a charity event and my school could come. I told him it was too far and i don't think we'd be able to make it. So then ... another month went by

and since chinese new year passed and I THINK he's partly chinese. I wished him via text again. But this time there's been no reply. And it's been more or less a week now.

So im confused? Did i chase him off by sounding to blah?

to whoever said i should bring a guy along and say he's my BF, yeah wouldn't that make things worse?

*is so sad* >_<
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