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| Friend might be pregnant...; Need some advice. | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Jan 16 2007, 06:42 PM (1,697 Views) | |
| CoolGamer100 | Jan 16 2007, 09:12 PM Post #31 |
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I would have to agree. |
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| KingOfKings305 | Jan 16 2007, 09:38 PM Post #32 |
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I just learned a bunch of new information in this topic. I hope nothing like that happens to me because I'm with a 13 year old and I am 15 (Just about the same age difference) But I have heard of a 10 year old getting pregnant from a 15 year old. But it's unlear whether or not it was rape or just "love." I really don't like the girls who are 11 and are with a 16 year old and stuff, it's not right really, your in 6-7th grade and he's in the 10th grade or 9th. Anyway, good luck on your friends situation and hope things go good for her no matter what way it turns. |
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| lightsilver | Jan 16 2007, 09:43 PM Post #33 |
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It said in the first post that they used protection. ![]() Also, even using protection, you can still get pregnant, |
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| ExiledSoldier | Jan 16 2007, 09:51 PM Post #34 |
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Why not? |
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| arctica | Jan 16 2007, 09:53 PM Post #35 |
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peace & love
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| ExiledSoldier | Jan 16 2007, 09:56 PM Post #36 |
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well she can have one, but chooses not to because of religious purposes, which i think is poop. but other than that, i cant give any other advice. |
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| Dyssomnia | Jan 16 2007, 10:00 PM Post #37 |
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1.) So is it illegal if the boy is 17 and the girl is 15? Depends on where you live. 2.) Can the boy get sued? Sued? No. Prosecuted for statutory rape? Possibly - again, depends on where you live. 3.) How would she confront her parents/the boy? Like Nicola said, she should first take a pregnancy case so that she can stop worrying about the 'if's and focus on planning out a future (if she is indeed pregnant), either with a counselor or with her parents. Her parents need to be told, straight up, without lying, and probably with a friend for support. Some parents actually /would/ do violent things in the OMGWTF stage and it's always best for her to have someone to talk to about it afterwards. The boy's a different story. If she's pregnant, and he's smart, he'll pay child support. But given the general nature of their 'relationship', she might actually have to take him to court to force him to pay child support. 4.) What should she do in this case if she were to have the baby? If she plans to keep the child, she needs (not should, needs) to stay in school, at least till she's done with high school. As hard as it seems, it's important that she does so that she can at least provide for her baby once they're out in the real world. She's gotta keep up with the medical stuff for the baby, and she needs to make damn sure she gets those child support payments. Otherwise, she needs to get the adoption papers. There's not much else you can do. EDIT// To the person majoring in criminal justice, statutory rape laws differ from state to state (in the US, at least). |
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| Chris220 | Jan 16 2007, 10:08 PM Post #38 |
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It was illegal. The age of consent in his state (Judging the location by his profile) is 17. That's statutory rape and carries a nice sentence, as well as a spot on the sex offender registry for life. Your brother's friend just ruined his life. He's required to support his child until its 18th birthday, even if he doesnt sign as the father on the birth certificate. He's required to pay for the child because he's responsible. When you get with a girl, you made an adult decision and you have to live with the consequences. There's always being able to put up for adoption. Many couples are looking for a child. By the way, once you're pregnant, you're automatically emancipated. This means that she can go to the doctor without her parents knowing. The doctors cant disclose anything without her consent. My best advice: See a doctor. |
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| Dyssomnia | Jan 16 2007, 10:20 PM Post #39 |
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Technically, he'd spend a year in prison, at max, because it falls under the charge of criminal sexual abuse/statutory rape in Illinois. Then again, she doesn't have to bring charges, but you never know. |
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| Solor | Jan 16 2007, 10:24 PM Post #40 |
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Well I'm speaking on behalf of the justice system in Connecticut since that's where I'll be practicing. |
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| Chris220 | Jan 16 2007, 10:36 PM Post #41 |
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Actually, she's not required to. Its called statutory rape because the victim doesn't have to be complaining. If the police find out that he slept with her, he'd be facing a minimum of a year in prison. |
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| CoolGamer100 | Jan 16 2007, 10:37 PM Post #42 |
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Probaly, He Could get arrested. But i don't know. |
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| Solor | Jan 16 2007, 10:40 PM Post #43 |
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Nice spam. But yeah, because it's a criminal offense, the girl (in this case, her parents because she is a minor) can choose to decide whether or not to press charges. |
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| Chris220 | Jan 16 2007, 10:42 PM Post #44 |
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Charges are automatically brought, CJ. There is no choice. Its the same thing as child pornography, endangering the welfare of a child. No complaining victim is required. |
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| Solor | Jan 16 2007, 10:44 PM Post #45 |
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Then it must be different if the girl is over the age of 16, correct? Because at that point she can choose whether or not to press charges, right? |
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