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There's this girl..
Topic Started: Aug 23 2007, 09:25 PM (1,229 Views)
Nicola
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Parrappa
Aug 24 2007, 05:12 AM
Show her whose boss, rip of your shirt like the incredible hulk, flash your six pack and grab her by the waist by simultaneously spinning a web out of your wrists and flying through the city.

I love this idea :P

Hmm...I was on the recieving end of this situation actually. Although we weren;t hugely close....we were friends. I didn't feel the same way, and it got really awkward. However it was worth patching things up and moving on from it because I valued our friendship.

If you let her know...there is a huge chance she'll be mature about it and do what I did.
It could end grissly but it also end well. You just need to step up and make a choice. Life is about making choices, and about taking risks.

If she doesn't feel the same way give her some space. If she does...congrats :P
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It is a very classic tale. One which I guess most of us could relate too. I had nearly the exact same situation years ago and I really liked her and we were good friends, I kept it bottled up for ages until I told her. She didnt feel the same way so I got over it. I dont talk to her much anymore, but thats because of other things.

The worse she could say is no, she cant just stop talkin to you because you like her. You might feel awkward, but it passes.
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Go for it.
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Idunno. I still want to be friends with her if she says no (which I hope she doesn't). But things will be acward like when I go over her hosue and stuff :(
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Lawl. If you don't want to ask her, maybe, let her ask you. :P You never know, she might tell you that exact thing a week later. :)
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SuperDawg224
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So should i wait a few months to see if she'll ask me out? :P
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IWillGetThere-07
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Aug 24 2007, 04:26 AM
SuperDawg224
Aug 24 2007, 05:05 AM
If I try holding her hand. She'll know I like her :(

Would you rather her know or not? If she doesn't feel the same when then poo, but it's best to know rather than wonder "what if?" later.

OK this is what you must DO

Ask her out!

i didnt bother asking this girl in my school and id know her for a year then she left... and its the most horrible thing ever not knowing if you would of just done it you would have been with her its best knowing being rejected feels bad but its not the end of the world it wouldnt matetr in the long run but not asking her and thinking about it over and over again afterwards is too painful!
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SuperDawg224
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I want to. But I keep thinkingof the side effects :(
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Just ask her. Do it like your ripping off a band-aid, one quick motion; or in this case one quick sentence. I understand that you are nervous, your understandable. I mean if you don't do it, then she could get asked out by someone else. How would you feel then? If you ask her out and you get rejected, it is not the end of the world. It's better than wondering years later what would have happened if you did. If she says no, you get closeur, and rid yourself of the "what if" feeling.
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I wouldn't risk it. Try to move into the "friends with benefits" thing.


Do it, its arguably the best thing ever. You get to stay friends with her and get several benefits. But to be honest. It and not asking her out are the ways to go if you don't want your friendship ruined. If she says no, it will be too awkward. If she says yes, then you guys are going to eventually break up most likely (your only 14), and then it will be awkward as well.


I use to have one, and it was great.
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Aug 24 2007, 07:58 PM
I want to. But I keep thinkingof the side effects :(

don't. I mean, really, just don't think about it.
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SuperDawg224
Aug 24 2007, 07:58 PM
I want to. But I keep thinkingof the side effects :(

Trust me the side effects of not doing it will be worse you cant think of anything else!
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Don't be so sure of that..
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Aug 23 2007, 08:25 PM
She always tells me her deepest thoughts and feelings and everything.

If she tells you her deepest thoughts and stuff, then why don't you just bring a conversation to relationships, and ask her is she likes anyone.
Just a thought.
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.Brad.
Aug 24 2007, 08:50 PM
SuperDawg224
Aug 23 2007, 08:25 PM
She always tells me her deepest thoughts and feelings and everything.

If she tells you her deepest thoughts and stuff, then why don't you just bring a conversation to relationships, and ask her is she likes anyone.
Just a thought.

Nice thinking :)
Like on MSN when everyone always says 'So you loving anyone atm?'
Once i siad you and we ended up going out... but only for liek a week :(
Might be worth a try but get into a convo first dont just say it straight off lol

And worse comes to worse your going to have to pop the question to some girl some day so getting it other with might not be as bad then waiting for the next one to come along
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