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Parties, Drinking, Teenage Life.
Topic Started: Aug 25 2007, 05:54 AM (786 Views)
D.B.
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Well, every night for the past few weeks I'd go over to my cousins house. My parents trust me there, as my grandma is home, and we have fun. I go over to my cousins every other day, we stay awake until midnight, then we leave to my other cousin's who is 25 years old, and go to his parties. He always has parties, sometimes a lot of people, sometimes very few. Tonight, was my last night out, before school started and I wanted to have fun. Of course, there was beer, vodka, weed, anything you can imagine. I have have a few beers, smoke a few ciggarettes, and that's about it. Tonight, they had a DJ, dancers, I was surprised. The girl that I like who I'm great friends with was there, dancing, drinking. After two hours, I was fine, had two beers, but she was completely wasted. She started making out with me, and I felt that it was wrong because well, she wouldnt do it if she wasn't drunk, and I stopped and said no, your drunk and she flipped out starting hitting me and crying and ****, saying "Why is it because I'm ugly?". Well, I've seen people wasted as hell, and she was a tipsy, and she started yelling and me. I just felt it was wrong, and I bailed, walked home my cousin stayed with the car. It was 3 am and I walked 5 miles home, finally got there and chilled, and felt like posting. I don't feel like going to parties anymore now, because I feel bad if a chick starts hitting on me, and I react the same way that they won't talk to me anymore. I don't know, I felt it was morally wrong, even that I really liked this girl, and been waiting to make a move. I don't know what she'll say in the morning, but I don't really care, it's not my fault. Anyone ever been in a situation like this before? urggh =[ :hmm:
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If she even remembers it... she will see why, and most likeley appreciate it in the morning...
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Aug 25 2007, 05:04 AM
If she even remembers it... she will see why, and most likeley appreciate it in the morning...

QFT.

I've gone to parties at which guys wanted me to get wasted. I never have though because I rather not sleep with a total stranger and then not remember it the next morning. If this girl does remember what happened she will be thankful that you didn't take advantage of her.
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You did the best thing you could have. She will definitely appreciate it, so don't feel bad.
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I don't know. I am always more forward and honest when intoxicated. If I like a girl that I would never put a move on when sober, drunk me will do it. Adn I've known girls who've gotten drunk and started making out with me, on their own, only to tell me later that they had liked me for a while, but were afraid to try to push it when sober.

I think it's very possible she has the same feelings for you, and has wanted to hook up, but has been too shy to hint at anything, but drinking brought it out of her.
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Aug 25 2007, 09:54 AM
Well, every night for the past few weeks I'd go over to my cousins house. My parents trust me there, as my grandma is home, and we have fun. I go over to my cousins every other day, we stay awake until midnight, then we leave to my other cousin's who is 25 years old, and go to his parties. He always has parties, sometimes a lot of people, sometimes very few. Tonight, was my last night out, before school started and I wanted to have fun. Of course, there was beer, vodka, weed, anything you can imagine. I have have a few beers, smoke a few ciggarettes, and that's about it. Tonight, they had a DJ, dancers, I was surprised. The girl that I like who I'm great friends with was there, dancing, drinking. After two hours, I was fine, had two beers, but she was completely wasted. She started making out with me, and I felt that it was wrong because well, she wouldnt do it if she wasn't drunk, and I stopped and said no, your drunk and she flipped out starting hitting me and crying and ****, saying "Why is it because I'm ugly?". Well, I've seen people wasted as hell, and she was a tipsy, and she started yelling and me. I just felt it was wrong, and I bailed, walked home my cousin stayed with the car. It was 3 am and I walked 5 miles home, finally got there and chilled, and felt like posting. I don't feel like going to parties anymore now, because I feel bad if a chick starts hitting on me, and I react the same way that they won't talk to me anymore. I don't know, I felt it was morally wrong, even that I really liked this girl, and been waiting to make a move. I don't know what she'll say in the morning, but I don't really care, it's not my fault. Anyone ever been in a situation like this before? urggh =[ :hmm:

wow this is what i hate i got on another girl one night and well got to 3rd base and basicaly the next day she siad i was taking advantage of her.. like yeah ok then... really not cool
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Aug 25 2007, 07:24 PM
I don't know. I am always more forward and honest when intoxicated. If I like a girl that I would never put a move on when sober, drunk me will do it. Adn I've known girls who've gotten drunk and started making out with me, on their own, only to tell me later that they had liked me for a while, but were afraid to try to push it when sober.

I think it's very possible she has the same feelings for you, and has wanted to hook up, but has been too shy to hint at anything, but drinking brought it out of her.

Yeah, well I usually would have two, but I really liked this girl, it's not something I would want to jeapordize. She called me today, saying she's sorry for yelling at me. <_<
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I only go to parties if i DJ it.
My friends are somewhat rational when drunk.
I dont hang out with drunk girls.


I just keep myself out of those situations, and i suggest everyone does the same. A huge problem with situations like that, is you will eventually encounter a girl that wants some sex. And its just tough to say no. If you started making out with her, one thing could have led to another.

"I don't f*** with no one unless I love them."
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Superbad style
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Versatyle
Aug 25 2007, 05:54 AM
Well, every night for the past few weeks I'd go over to my cousins house. My parents trust me there, as my grandma is home, and we have fun. I go over to my cousins every other day, we stay awake until midnight, then we leave to my other cousin's who is 25 years old, and go to his parties. He always has parties, sometimes a lot of people, sometimes very few. Tonight, was my last night out, before school started and I wanted to have fun. Of course, there was beer, vodka, weed, anything you can imagine. I have have a few beers, smoke a few ciggarettes, and that's about it. Tonight, they had a DJ, dancers, I was surprised. The girl that I like who I'm great friends with was there, dancing, drinking. After two hours, I was fine, had two beers, but she was completely wasted. She started making out with me, and I felt that it was wrong because well, she wouldnt do it if she wasn't drunk, and I stopped and said no, your drunk and she flipped out starting hitting me and crying and ****, saying "Why is it because I'm ugly?". Well, I've seen people wasted as hell, and she was a tipsy, and she started yelling and me. I just felt it was wrong, and I bailed, walked home my cousin stayed with the car. It was 3 am and I walked 5 miles home, finally got there and chilled, and felt like posting. I don't feel like going to parties anymore now, because I feel bad if a chick starts hitting on me, and I react the same way that they won't talk to me anymore. I don't know, I felt it was morally wrong, even that I really liked this girl, and been waiting to make a move. I don't know what she'll say in the morning, but I don't really care, it's not my fault. Anyone ever been in a situation like this before? urggh =[ :hmm:

sounds like superbad
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Aug 26 2007, 01:07 AM
Superbad style

I'm definately that mistake. :arr:

I wouldn't know, I've never been drunk :r
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Its not taking advantage of her if she throws herself on you. Drunk or not, she did it, next time she shouldn't get drunk.

EDIT: And by that I mean, it woulda been ok if you DID go further with her, if she was still leading it.
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I think you did the honourable thing in not continuing, as Shroud said, she did throw herself at you. Although you still would have been taking advantage of her as you where in your right mind and she wasn't. Either she won't remember what happened, or she will in which case she'll appreciate what you did.

I've been in a similar situation where a girl who just broke up with her boyfriend asked me to go round to her house to talk to her. I went and she came onto me while I was there, I told her to stop because she was upset and wasn't thinking straight. Obviously she threw a bit of tantrum, but a few days after she thanked me for not taking advantage.
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Personally, I've had times when I've though. "No, this is taking advantage." but quickly realised. She's drinking, she knew **** like this was gonna happen. Its a party, **** happens at parties.
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