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Waiting; girls are strange
Topic Started: Aug 26 2007, 12:55 AM (679 Views)
TFK
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Ok so im 13 and have had 2 "real" girlfriends and i am really stumped on girls. Ok so im at school and this girl comes up to me and asks if i will go out with this girl i said maybe and she told the girl. for the reast of the week they were bugging me about asking her out and then a week later this school dance was happening i thought this would be perferct andi finally decided i wantedto go out with her so i asked her otu and she said no...pause... im still confused on why she said no. And i think its because i waited too long.

So do girls not like guys who wait or are nervous do they like straiht foward guys who make up there mind eventualy i got her to go out with me and i got my first kiss with her any suggestions about this :huh:
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Maybe she moved on because she thought you didn't like her?
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ExiledSoldier
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perhaps they were playing a joke on you?
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ExiledSoldier
Aug 26 2007, 06:19 AM
perhaps they were playing a joke on you?

Definitely what I think. Girls can be cruel. My ex-girlfriend signed onto someone else's screen name once and completely started to hit on me. This girl was coincidently the one I liked, so I asked her out the next day, and she said no. I asked her about what she said last night and she said she was out all night. We eventually discovered what really happened.
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ExiledSoldier
Aug 26 2007, 01:19 AM
perhaps they were playing a joke on you?

Yeah that too. Now that I think about it, that exact thing happened to me. The girl's friends asked me if I liked her and like a few days later I still wasn't sure but my..."friends" called her and said I did (even though I didn't) and she said she never liked me...

so it could be a joke. But since you eventually went out with her, I guess not.
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She probably liked you (therefore asked her friend to ask you cause she was shy) but after you said maybe she got a little .. embarrassed? I know I would
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I recon when a guy says maybe, girls seem to think that means no. Otherwise most guys would just say yes straight away. So she was probably a little upset, and knew she'd feel a bit awkward around you, because she thinks you didn't really wanna go out with her.

Yeah... confusing I know.
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ExiledSoldier
Aug 26 2007, 06:19 AM
perhaps they were playing a joke on you?

A joke around that age is highly possible.
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So do girls not like guys who wait or are nervous do they like straiht foward guys who make up there mind


Girls aren't robots... no One answer can be right throughout. Some girls might not mind if your a bit nervous while others will say **** you if you don't make up your mind.
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She probably just thought that you waited too long. But, you never know.
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You're 13, you shouldn't be dating at all.
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.EndotroniX
Aug 26 2007, 03:38 PM
You're 13, you shouldn't be dating at all.

I agree.

Anyway, If she wasn't playing a joke on you, and genuinely liked you, then she might've been a bit embarassed.
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When people do that, I have my own plan. :P

If I like the girl, I'll say no if their friends ask (which is pretty stupid anyway IMO, but I guess people are shy), but then go up to the girl and ask if she did ask her friends to ask me for her, if she says yeah, then I'll ask her out, but if she says no, I'll just joke about it and say that I said no anyway. lol.
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The girl I am currently dating
Has been my absolute best friend for a year
And has told me so god damn much
And I knew everything about her
And I asked her out a bit over a week ago
And since then
I suddenly never know what's going on
And I am always confused
Which scares me a bit... a lot really
But I guess that's how **** goes
And that's some **** that happens
So you're not alone
And I know for a fact, neither am I
And as cliche` as this might sound
We will never know what exactly is going on inside a girls head

So just forget about it and try to enjoy what life brings you, instead of looking for answers you'll never find.
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.EndotroniX
Aug 26 2007, 03:38 PM
You're 13, you shouldn't be dating at all.

Is 14 okay? :arr:


^o)
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