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22 year old guy with 16 year old girl; Am I right to be angry?
Topic Started: Sep 18 2007, 10:55 AM (81,497 Views)
JoshuaRivenbark
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If I had a 16 year old daughter that wanted to have intercourse with a 22 year old person, I would probably want to get to know the person first because I don't want to make sure he puts her into situations that make her feel like she has to have sex with him when she doesn't want to. She is 16 years old which shows in two years, she will be a grown-up. She is getting close to making her own decisions and even at 16 years old, she would need to make her own decisions. If she has a boyfriend that is trying to make her have sex with him and she doesn't know what to say, she can always talk to me about it and we will have the situation handled.
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Alex D.
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I'm gonna go ahead and say the same thing that a lot of the other people are saying. Age shouldn't really be a factor. If they both want it, then it really shouldn't be a problem, especially since 16 is the legal age of consent in the area that this is going on. If it was your daughter you'd have the right to be irked a little, but when it comes down to it, if she is of the legal age of consent it is her choice, and you should be able to know that she can make decisions, but also if something would happen from those decisions, such as STDs or pregnancy, let her know that it was her decision to do it, and while you may help her with whatever troubles may be caused, that it was her decision. Also as Locke said, the relationship really should be something more than just a random hookup, but that's what some people want. If it was me, I wouldn't feel ok with a random hookup and I'd want a relationship but everyone's personal opinions differ in that category.
Edited by Alex D., Oct 8 2009, 03:36 PM.
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Skiggs-ZNR
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This is a really tricky one. Reason being is that it relies entirely on each individual persons beliefs and morals. If they both agree and are old enough, then I guess it's ok. But at the same time I don't think its so good because I think teens should stay closer to their own age group until they mature more.
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Boss Jr.
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I'd say no.

There's nothing wrong with embracing such biological urges...... as the phrase goes, "Just don't bring me home any kids."

16 is definitely too young to be getting pregnant. But a little consensual sex is fine.

Think of it this way, they're going to act on these urges one way or another, better they do it with a partner than alone, huh?
Edited by Boss Jr., Nov 4 2009, 11:10 PM.
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this seems to be a very close pole, i say that you do have the right to be upset. Having a daughter does influence your opinion tho.
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The Last Outlaw
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I can vote "yes" with a good sense of the law (depending on where this is happening). It's a little something called "Statutory Rape." If the girl is underage (in some states), if she and an older guy engage in sex, he can be charged for it. Same thing if the situation is flip-flopped.
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diplomat
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ummm i think the girl is to fricking to have sex with that guy and that guy is liek robbing the cradle
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