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22 year old guy with 16 year old girl; Am I right to be angry?
Topic Started: Sep 18 2007, 10:55 AM (81,504 Views)
LoganA
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Strange, I saw the exact same post on another forum I was on a looooong time ago. Maybe you are the same person. :o

But yeah, I think it is fine. If they are both agree to it, then it is OK.
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that's nothing, in my school, many people have had sex and they're only 14. And three girls had babies when they were only 14. It's sick. but it's not only the boy's fault. it's the girl's fault as well.
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well i guess it is wrong.... what would you say if a 18 year old had sex with a 12 year old?
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Well I would say that as long as she is legal, he isn't forcing her and she is happy with it then I see nothing wrong with it. Parents sometimes see it as a big deal mainly because your being protective but as I said before as long as they are happy then I see nothing to worry about.
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Nov 6 2007, 01:39 PM
Well I would say that as long as she is legal, he isn't forcing her and she is happy with it then I see nothing wrong with it. Parents sometimes see it as a big deal mainly because your being protective but as I said before as long as they are happy then I see nothing to worry about.

yes, if some people just can't wait a little while then there's nothing you can do about it.
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It's legal. There's only 6 years difference. There's nothing legally or morraly wrong. Get over it.
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kseajayne
Sep 30 2007, 05:02 AM
love is love.
as long as it is legal, i'm perfectly fine with it.

He's not talking about love.He's talking about jumping her bones. Big difference.
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Sep 19 2007, 05:31 PM
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Sep 19 2007, 07:05 AM
At 16 they're not capable of making their own decisions. I'd be highly pissed at the guy and upset with the daughter. She's 16 she doesn't know what love is yet. Secondly a lot of guys prey on these girls because of their naivety. I can't speak for all countries, but in America that's something that's looked down upon. I know it's legal in some places but that doesn't make it right. Why is it that they can have sex at 16 with adults but cannot move out until they're 18? I'm sorry but if my daughter wants to do that she'd have to get the hell out of my house.XD

In Britain you can move out at the age of 16.

And 16 year olds are perfectly capable of making rational, and reasonable decisions. Just because they haven't experienced as much as perhaps a middle aged adult has does not make them any less capable of making their own decisions.

And you're saying that you'd want to get you're daughter out of your house for acting on urges that are only human - and that the vast majority of us feel?

Well in America you can't move out at 16. =/ Unless you're emancipated.

Of course they can make their own decisions. I mean they do have a brain.

I'm saying, if she thinks she's woman enough to disobey me, then she should be woman enough to have her own place. Simple. I wouldn't probably be as upset if it was someone really closer to her age. =/

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Of course you have the right to be angry, ain't it a free country?
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There's a commercial where I live that has like a merge of two conversation.

One's a 10 year old talking about her online BF, the other one a pedophile.

It goes like this:
"He understands me,"
"I try to get her to feel comfortable,"
"He makes me feel better when I'm upset,"
"Most kids crave attention from older people, and I can do that."
"And soon, I'll be happy."
"And when we meet up in real life, that's.. When things get interesting"
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not good... although the age group isnt that wide it still is pretty wrong
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if that was my dauter i would probaly hunt that guy down
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Haha there's me in the future :D some nice young poon.


She should have been 18.. but still in my mind, if the girl and the guy were both up for it.. No one on this world can really stop them. We all do weird, stupid shit.. and we only live once. I'd say, get over it.
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Why is it that nobody complains when the guy is 16 and the girl is 22?
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I had a physical relationship with a 21-year-old when I was fifteen, so I really don' t see anything wrong with it. My relationship wasn't the most healthy, but I don't think that it was the age difference that was the problem. As long as he wasn't a pedophile (yes, there is a big difference between lovers who merely have a large age difference and pedophiles), I wouldn't mind if my daughter had a relationship with an older man.
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