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Need some tips for asking a girl out...
Topic Started: Oct 31 2007, 10:03 PM (1,111 Views)
Travis.
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I need some tips. I've done it before but I'm horrible at it. =p Any ideas for asking her out. I really think she is hot...she is also smart...has a good personality.

Don't know if she likes me, so that's the problem. =/
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Prekaz
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If you've never talked to her don't ask her out yet. It's too awkward. You should at least talk to her once in a while and then eventually ask her if she wants to go out sometime.
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Feignt
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Are you even friends? Does she know that you exist?

If the answer to these is no, you may want to try befriending her first, not blatantly asking her out.
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Billions of people will go through the same thing, not to mention it has been asked here countless times. There's no other way around it, no special way to do it (although there are things not recommended)

Whatever you say to her, you'll still be asking her out or something whatever way you dress it up. Ask her out or whatever how you would, then it's you asking and not what someone thinks might go down well who doesn't even know her. :P
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Try talking to her get to know her.

Firstly see if she has a bf lol

After that start makin ur move
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Travis.
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I'm pretty sure she doesn't have a boyfriend. Why would I be asking this. O.o

Yeah, I've seen this on here before...I know people who have gone through the same thing too. I probably need to get to know her better though.
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Nov 1 2007, 02:07 AM
(although there are things not recommended)

NICE TO MEET YOU! WANNA D8???

Edit: And, get to know her first :P
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Chimpers
Nov 1 2007, 03:07 AM
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Nov 1 2007, 02:07 AM
(although there are things not recommended)

NICE TO MEET YOU! WANNA D8???

Edit: And, get to know her first :P

LMAO.

ahahahaa.
well, I suggest not like that =]

I like when guys do it alone, not just out in public for everyone to hear. It makes me nervous and blatantly say no. Take her aside and ask her casually. :]
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Well usally i ask out people i hang out w not random ppl.

Lke i said get to know her get hur number then u proally know the rest
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If you are too nervous to ask her out blatantly, get yourself an ambassador. Tell one of your (or her) friends to ask her if she likes you. If she says yes, then go for it. If she says no, then you won't get in a sticky situation with her saying no. :)
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Nov 1 2007, 05:12 PM
If you are too nervous to ask her out blatantly, get yourself an ambassador. Tell one of your (or her) friends to ask her if she likes you. If she says yes, then go for it. If she says no, then you won't get in a sticky situation with her saying no. :)

What is he 10? :P

If you've never talked to her before, like others have mentioned at least befriend her and get to know her first.

Best of luck :)
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As of right now, I'm seeing a girl whom I've been talking to for almost 3 months now. I still haven't popped the question yet because I want her to think it through and not jump to things too quickly. Too many times in the past have I let things swing into action too quickly with the end result being nothing more than a month or two-month fling.

The point I'm trying to get across is to give time to get to know her. The way I see it, both sides have to be ready in order for the relationship to be stable. Not knowing whether or not a girl likes you is always something that needs to be fixed. Now, I'm not an expert on finding the answer to that question but my best advice is to be straight forward in expressing your feelings for her. From personal experience, I've come to realize that most girls don't want a timid guy who is afraid to express how he feels about her. The fact that you openly tell her how you feel will come across as confidence to her and in turn will let her begin showing her feelings for you if she hasn't already.
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Be sincere. The best thing is to be yourself, if she rejects you for it, then it is her loss. Just try and be friendly, cool, and helpful to her, and she'll eventually bring you closer. Then bam! Ask her. :)
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Be yourself, thats all I can really say to you.

I made the mistake of trying to do things that weren't in my nature and I think it cost me a girlfriend, thats how kids are in grade 6 though :P. One other thing, get to know her, and ease into it, give her time, and you time to think about it then take her somewhere simple, dinner, a movie maybe and get to know her.

Just one thing, make sure you ask her, if you don't you're going to be regretting it for a while, I'm in that situation right now and believe me, it sucks.
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I think that she just decided to go with one of my friends.XD

*feels lame* Doesn't matter. I'm not sure though, more than one person with her name in my school. o.o
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