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Need some tips for asking a girl out...
Topic Started: Oct 31 2007, 10:03 PM (1,112 Views)
LoganA
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I just say do it. Act yourself and then it should work. :o
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Travis.
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That's normally my approach. It has worked and hasn't. You can all watch me get my throat slit, because some girl I think has OCD-Travis(me), because she won't leave me alone. So if I ask another girl out she'll be like: "!!!"

But anyways...I might ask her out. I'm gonna think things over. I was probably going to use an ambassador...but still.
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Nov 2 2007, 01:36 AM
That's normally my approach. It has worked and hasn't. You can all watch me get my throat slit, because some girl I think has OCD-Travis(me), because she won't leave me alone. So if I ask another girl out she'll be like: "!!!"

But anyways...I might ask her out. I'm gonna think things over. I was probably going to use an ambassador...but still.

Don't use an ambassador. That just makes you look cowardly, and scared. You need to be confident.

I would recommend talking to her, and getting to know her. But let her know that you're interested from the word go, but not in a bizzare sort of way. If she thinks of you as a 'friend', chances are she's not going to be interested in going out with you.

Your best bet is to do things that you are not comfortable doing - because chances are that's what girls will like.
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It's a tough situation, but you've been given some good pointers and really the best thing is to just go ahead and ask her to a movie or something if you're fairly confident she likes you. It's always a good idea to have a friend go with so there aren't awkward silences or anything.

My situation is kind of lucky for me, because I danced with this girl that I didn't know at our homecoming dance, and then a few days later at school her friend stopped me in the hallway and gave me her number, so I knew that she liked me, and she's a type that's invited me to the movies and stuff, so it makes it easy on me. Why can't it always work out like that? Good luck. :P
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Hang out with her for a bit, perhaps induce intoxicants (To lighten the mood! Not bloody date rape) and then get jiggy with it.If she wants to go out with you, she'll ask you sometime.

Then again, I probably live a pretty different life to you.
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All you have to do is be yourself. Don't try to be anyone else. And try to show your sensitive side. It is more manly to do the unmanly thing. Try to offer help if she needs help carrying something, or walking somewhere. And if she cries, cry with her.
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All the matter of time. Get her msn, her number etc. Send a friend if your to shy but that may tell her your a *****. Get to know her, then re-think say to yourself is she the girl i want. If she is and you know she likes you then go to high school meet up and say "hey, i really like you and i would like to go on a date with you" something like that. Its hard as i don't know how i do it, if i like a girl and i am single i go for her lol. Ask her out.

Good luck though buddy.
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uhh you don't need to get really deep or anything. if you are acquainted with her just ask if she'd like to go to dinner or something sometime. if you don't know her at all then it's gonna be weird. oh yeah and don't do it at school.
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Naked polaroids of you attached to a brick which you throw through her window, works like a charm.
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Stay single.
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Nov 5 2007, 02:57 PM
Naked polaroids of you attached to a brick which you throw through her window, works like a charm.

Unless you throw it in the wrong window. Then things could get ugly.
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Sorry I did not read all the answers here yet, but the best thing to do from my experience anyways, is just to start as friends, and let it go from there. Best of luck to you. ;)
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Don't kidnap her like Numark did. You should be fine.
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uh... I'm a girl and I suggest that you just get to know her first, and ignore all the stupid comments about throwing bricks through a window. Girls will find that disgusting, others may not but most of the time, its disgusting. We have some of our dignity you know.

Like I said, get to know her first before you want to go out with her. Then decide. After that, do a sly way of saying a confession. For example:

Boy: "I know someone who likes you."
Girl: "Who? Do I know him?"
Boy: "Yeah, he's in a couple of your classes." (This has be some of the information that's true about you.)
Girl: Then the girl's questions can vary...
Eventually, you'll get to:
Girl: "Tell me already, who is it?"
Boy: "I already told you who it is."
If the girl doesn't get it...
Boy: "He wants to ask you out."
Girl: "Who?"
Boy: "I just did."
I think that's cute if you do it that way.XD

Good luck on it though! =]
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Hang out with her for a bit, perhaps induce intoxicants (To lighten the mood! Not bloody date rape) and then get jiggy with it.If she wants to go out with you, she'll ask you sometime.

Then again, I probably live a pretty different life to you.

ROFL...Could work! But no.

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Naked polaroids of you attached to a brick which you throw through her window, works like a charm.

Best answer so far. Can you send me some extra bricks?

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Like I said, get to know her first before you want to go out with her. Then decide. After that, do a sly way of saying a confession. For example:

Boy: "I know someone who likes you."
Girl: "Who? Do I know him?"
Boy: "Yeah, he's in a couple of your classes." (This has be some of the information that's true about you.)
Girl: Then the girl's questions can vary...
Eventually, you'll get to:
Girl: "Tell me already, who is it?"
Boy: "I already told you who it is."
If the girl doesn't get it...
Boy: "He wants to ask you out."
Girl: "Who?"
Boy: "I just did."
I think that's cute if you do it that way.Rofl.gif

Good luck on it though! =]

That actually doesn't sound like a bad idea.

Too bad she goes with one of my friends which I found out 2 days ago.

xD
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